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Chaldean Christmas Gift Giving Suggestions
By Huda Metti :: Thursday, December 20, 2007 :: 41274 Views :: Community & Culture

California, USA - Chaldeans in America have been blessed with abundance and are known for their generosity in sharing and helping others.  However, the Christmas customs in America can be rife with uncertainty for Chaldeans, since gift giving are one of the few expenses over which individuals in America have total discretion.  Nonetheless, there are a few time-honored guidelines that can make the decisions a little easier.

Gift giving can be a daunting task.  While any Chaldean would want to give everyone the greatest gift we are all limited by what we have.  We are limited by both time and money.  Having to choose who to give, what to give, how much to give are all difficult questions to answer. 

A guiding light in your gift giving calculations is to consider the deeds and needs of the recipient.   

The deeds represent the work of the recipient.  Do others benefit by their good work?  Have they dedicated themselves to the care and comfort of others?  Are they properly being rewarded for their sacrifice and service?  Will your gift encourage the person to continue doing their good work and as such benefit many others?

The needs represent the current situation of the recipient. What are their current challenges, economically, socially, or spiritually?  Would the gift be used to meet their needs or satisfy their wants?

Chaldeans may want to consider these common service providers that share their expertise and talent in hopes of comforting us. 

Children's caretakers: A small gift from the child is always appropriate. For regular babysitters, consider adding an evening's pay. A week's pay is normal for a nanny or sitter who cares for your children full-time.

If the child is in day care, and the company allows it, a tip of $25 to $70 for each caregiver is likely to be well received, advises the Emily Post Institute.

Personal Services: When it comes to hairstylists, aestheticians and manicurists, cash is king. Consider giving the cost of one service as a bonus.

These workers are usually dependent on tips to make a livable wage, so a holiday bonus is particularly helpful. The median hourly earnings of $12.40 for a hairstylist is 24% tips, for instance, while a manicurist's pay is 19% tips, according to salary site

The cost of one service or a gift is an appropriate tip for personal trainers and massage therapists.

Household Services: A gift of $20 to $50 is customary for garden workers, while the norm for a pool-cleaning service is the cost of one cleaning, to be split among the crew, the Emily Post Institute says. For housekeepers and cooks, one week's pay is appreciated. For regular deliverymen, garbage collectors and newspaper deliverers, a gift of $10 to $30 is customary, PayScale says.

Don't try to give cash to a postal worker, though, since it's against government rules. A gift worth up to $20 is all that's permitted.

Teachers, Clergy, and nursing-home employees: These dedicated professionals have committed their lives to making us better.  Be generous in what you give. These individuals invest in our well being and the gift given is proven to be a wise investment.  Keep in mind your school teachers, tutors, and catechist / communion teachers, they are often undervalued for their service and catechist and communion teachers are volunteers. 

Clergy and home care health providers should be a generous must for any Chaldean.  Contrary to those selfishly justifying their lack of generosity home care providers are not well covered by insurance and clergy do not live in abundance.  Why do you think there is a shortage of nurses and clergy?  These mortal angels struggle daily to inspire and rebuild lives.  Giving a generous gift to these compassionate servants is returned to you ten-fold.

Nurses will often spend their gift in adding to the comfort of those they care.  Same goes for Clergy.  In the Chaldean community those in desperate need are often uncomfortable with expressing their dire situation with the public.  Turning to our clergy is a way to receive support without the perceived burden of shame. When giving to the clergy much of those gifts go towards helping those in the shadows of our community that turn to our community leaders for assistance and discretion. 

Importantly, the encouraging gesture of our gratitude is way to keep these tireless souls tolerant of the hardship they face in healing the bodies and souls of our community.            

Chaldeans should remember that for many of these workers, a year-end bonus "has to come from you" or it won't be paid, says PayScale's director of quantitative analysis, Al Lee.

Obviously what you give must accommodate your budget and working relationships. But try to be thoughtful about the decision and be mindful of the deeds and needs of those you choose to give a gift.

Mother of God Church, MI USA


Mother of God Chaldean Catholic Church
25585 Berg Road
Southfield, MI 48033
Tel: (248) 356-0565
Fax: (248) 356-5235

Founding Pastor:
Msgr. Geroge Garmo in 1972
The current church building
was completed in 1980.

Rev.  Manuel Yousif Boji

Parochial Vicar:
Rev. Wisam Matti

Daily:  10:00 AM Chaldean
Tuesdays:  5:30 PM Chaldean/English 
Saturdays:  Ramsha 4:45-5:20 PM; Mass 5:30 PM Chaldean   
Sundays:  8:30 AM Arabic, 10:00 AM English, 12:00 PM Chaldean

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 Rev. Manuel Yousif Boji

Fr. Manuel was born in Telkaif in the suburbs of Nineveh, Iraq in 1946.   Reverend Manuel Boji entered the Chaldean Seminary in Mousl in 1958 and was ordained a priest in Baghdad in 1968.  His first assignment was in Telkaif where he served for 19 years.  In July 1987, Fr. Manuel was assigned  to the United States  where he assisted Mar Addai Parish in Oak Park, Michigan for six months.  From March 1988 until April 1990, he was administrator of Sacred Heart Parish in Detroit, Michigan.  Fr. Manuel completed his Masters and Doctorate work from both U of D Mercy and Wayne State University while assigned to the United States.  In May 1990, Fr. Manuel was assigned to Mother of God Parish and is currently serving there as Rector of the Cathedral. 

Parochial Vicar: Rev. Wisam Matti

Fr. Wisam was born in Basrah, Iraq on October 30, 1971. Completing his education in Iraq and serving in the military Fr. Wisam then entered the Chaldean Seminary in Baghdad in 1984.  He was ordained a priest in Karemlees a suburb of Nineveh on July 4th 1997.  His first assignment was in Mosul where he served for five years.  On January 21, 2002, Fr. Wisam was transferred to the Unites States and was assigned to Mother of God Parish where he is currently serving as parochial vicar.  Fr. Wisam, earned his Master in Pastoral Theology on April 28, 2007 from Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, Michigan.